never show weakness or vulnerability, and carry the load not
just for themselves, but others too.
Even as options dry up and possibilities wither, much demand is
placed squarely on the shoulders of men.
For us, a lack of independence, a loss of our prior status quo,
and an inability to provide for our basic needs can feel like
absolutely fatal losses. But still, all in all, they are merely obstacles.
In this battle, our thoughts and outlooks have to be realigned.
Giving ourselves a break does not mean giving up the fight.
It's just a tightening of the belt, a restructuring of priorities...
learning to allow for our humanness. The added stress of beating
ourselves up or feeling 'less than' is not helpful or healthy. You are
more than simply a provider; Accept that.
Situations change. Abilities lessen.
We have to stop trying to be superhuman all the time, and realize
that we don't win every hand. We have to cut ourselves a break.
Let go of the lost image, the expectations, the imagined gossip.
It is what it is.
We do what we have to do.
Survival isn't pretty, but it's of utmost importance.
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